It's not generous if you expect something in return. It's not generous if you're waiting for them to pay you back. It's not generous if you think you deserve to be appreciated. It's not generous if you feel you're owed now. It's not generous if you think they should work for you. It's not generous if you think about what they might do for you. It's not generous if you're waiting to speak. It's not generous.
It's colonialist.